I recently corresponded with a writer from Bustle regarding sex games — but like, fun games (not mind games or nefarious manipulations). The prompt I received said: “I’m writing a piece about games/activities that can help someone explore their sexual desires in their relationship. If you’re interested in contributing, please
I recently corresponded with a writer from Cosmopolitan regarding orgasm denial. The quotes seem to be lost in the ethers of the interwebs, but I have an archive of my statement here — enjoy! According to me: Orgasm denial is when a person is kept in a heightened state of sexual
Back in March, writer Bobby Box asked me some questions about why “free porn sites” are bad for the adult entertainment industry. I minced no words when offering some much needed clarification regarding his well-meaning, yet off mark questions — I’m always happy to try to engage every teaching moment
Note: My sassy post title — “If there’s a lady involved, it’s gotta be feminist” — is in no way making shady sub-reference to Mish Barber-Way. She may well be feminist AF. I don’t know her, but she seems pretty legit. I recently corresponded with writer Eric Ducker who was working on an
I recently published an in-depth and revealing interview with director Stormy Daniels in the print version of May’s AVN. You can also read the article online right here. For various reasons, the full version was edited down some for publication, both online and in print. You may read the unedited
I recently corresponded with Tracy Clark-Flory, writing for Jezebel, about pornographer Erika Lust. The piece — “Erika Lust Says She Has an ‘Ethical’ Alternative to ‘Mass-Produced’ Porn” — published on May 8, 2018. You can read the entire thing — including passages that describe Lust, an avowed vegan, eating “market
I recently wrote a book review for the academic journal Theory in Action. The review considers the book Trans: Gender and Race in an Age of Unsettled Identities (2016) by Rogers Brubaker. Let’s dive right in with my opening paragraphs: [S]cholars, students, and every other sort of remotely thoughtful human have
Back in March, I corresponded with Alia Stearns, writing for UPROXX, about being a dude and also a good male ally, consent, and #metoo. Alia introduced the contributor-generated, sourced Q&A listicle in the following way: On October 15 of last year, Alyssa Milano took to Twitter and encouraged her followers
I recently corresponded with Alia Stearns, writing for UPROXX, about being a dude and also a feminist ally, as well as something that emerged from the mind of her editor in the process — “Sex Experts Tell Us Exactly How To Make Our Sex Lives Better.” I’m not a sex
What impact has the #MeToo movement had on the live cam space? I got to explore this question and many more during a series of adult industry seminars. I recently got to help organize and moderate two of the four seminars that constituted the first ever CAM U Day, held